by Jan Spiller
Depending on the position
of the Planets, Ascendant and Midheaven at the time of your
birth,
different foundational
characteristics emerge as “themes¨ operating within
your identity. The contents of this section contain a brief
description of these themes to aid you in expanding your
self-awareness.
The beauty of knowing where our talents lie is that having
this objective information leads to greater to self-acceptance.
This is also true for our ability to understand and accept
others.
Most of us aren’t any one ¨type,¨ but rather
a unique combination. For example, if you have five placements
in fire, three in earth, three in air and one in water, you
are primarily a fire person. You have the qualities of earth
and air in a balanced way (ie: you can be both practical
and abstract), and you LACK the quality of water (a total
of 0 or 1 is a ¨lack¨- not so much within you, but
in comparison with most people).
If you have a total of “0” or “1” in
any category, you might want to read the characteristics
of that category to gain a sense of a quality that most others
express more strongly than you do. You may then choose put
energy into developing that quality in yourself, or you may
choose to simply let others know that you are not naturally ¨tuned
in¨ to that quality.
With the above example ( 1 in water),
in relationships that are important to you, it may be in
your best interest to
tell the other person: ¨Look, I care very much about
how you feel and I don’t want to hurt your feelings,
AND I’m not always immediately AWARE of others emotions.
So if I hurt your feelings, please tell me so we can discuss
it, because it would never be my intention to hurt you.¨
One of life’s challenges is
to be true to ourselves and to learn how to be ourselves
effectively and consciously
so that we also have rewarding relationships with others.
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Jan Spiller |